Excerpt from "Town and Country grazing from two pastures"
Making a sea change? Don't be caught high and dry
Departing city life for better balance in the bush has certain pluses says life coach Louise Crosby.
"A calmer lifestyle, access to nature, bringing up children in a safer environment as well as more meaningful community involvement are all notions people tend to romanticise about when considering a sea change."
But she acknowledges the outcome for other sea changing couples is not always rosy; many who dispense of city living to pursue a slower pace on the coast are left feeling lost and stranded.
Here's what the life coach advises to other sea changers, so they're not left feeling high and dry after making similar moves:
The timing, location and desire for a sea change can be influenced by many factors. Define your values and be clear about what is important to you. Is it a more peaceful existence, being closer to nature, a more laidback lifestyle, bringing up children in a healthier and safer environment, a greater sense of community or a mixture of these principles?
Identify the resources and budget that you have or may require to establish your new life. Consider cost effective telecommunications and internet services, schools, hospitals, local trades people and other professionals like doctors, dentists, accountants, and solicitors. If you are commuting between two locations keep an eye on airfares to capitalise on the best offers.
Whether buying or renting, if you enjoy the company of family and friends it is essential when considering real estate to identify an environment that can accommodate visitors.
Never say Never! While the romantic idea of retiring in a cottage by the sea is appealing events may change in the future. Maintain the important relationships in your life. Keep communication lines open and schedule regular time to converse with family, friends and relevant professional or business contacts.
Producing a regular newsletter for family and friends is a good way to keep people informed of the events in your life and travel schedule if you are commuting. Sharing the experiences of your new environment provides an opportunity for loved ones to feel closer to you.
Explore the local environment and culture including restaurants, cafes, theatre, music, adult education courses and nature walks. Joining a local community group (sporting, wildlife, church or spiritual), and engaging in voluntary work is an opportunity to connect with the local community and make a contribution.
Contact local business organisations including the local chambers of commerce, small business centres and public speaking groups. Becoming involved with these groups is a great way to meet and network with other business owners and self- employed people. Join an online network to discuss the issues related to moving homes or juggling business between different locations.
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